Women’s relationships today follow
a very predictable pattern:
- They push men for commitment
- They get what they want
- They lose interest in sex
- They become attracted to someone else
- They start cheating
- They become angry and resentful
- They begin telling their partners that they need time apart
- They blame their partners for their behavior…and eventually, after a long time of vacillating back and forth and several failed attempts to give up their affairs, they end their relationships or marriages.
If you’re a man, like most men, you would probably never suspect that your wife is cheating, (at least, not physically cheating) not only because of your wife’s seeming disinterest in sex; but also because you have the belief that your wife or girlfriend is a “good girl.” Unfortunately, men are frequently left/divorced by their wives without ever knowing about their wives’ affairs and infidelities.
If you’re a woman, like most women, prior to cheating on your husband you always proclaimed yourself to be “not the type” who would ever cheat. However, also like most women, after they’ve cheated, you’re shocked and appalled by your behavior; but at the same time you can’t stop cheating.
Learn how women process infidelity. Find out why cheating (emotionally or physically) can catapult women into a full-blown identity crisis.
Women’s relationships and marriages will continue to follow the same pattern unless we develop an accurate understanding of females — particularly in regard to their sexuality. After researching women’s sexuality for more than ten years, I can honestly say that many of our societal beliefs about females are grossly distorted and some are completely erroneous. Unfortunately, society’s preoccupation with male infidelity and male issues with commitment has and continues to keep a light from being shined too closely on female infidelity and female issues with commitment.
The media has finally begun to acknowledge, albeit to a small degree, the widespread problem of female infidelity. But, to be clear, female infidelity is one of the most prevalent problems couples are facing today in their relationships.
People who write and speak on the subject of why women cheat often regurgitate outdated information or intentionally leave out basic information because it’s not politically correct to talk about women’s true sexual nature. However, without these missing pieces of information, it’s impossible to understand, and to subsequently fix, the real problems that couples are facing today in their relationships. In addition, this is also why women are unable to effectively process cheating on their husbands, at least, not without separating and eventually divorcing them.