Very new to this forum, and am hoping to gain some idea on how to address a particular issue. I have been separated now for 10 months and have yet to proceed to property settlement. Both parties have submitted all documents, financials etc now awaiting mediation, but in the interim, the family home in which I reside which is in a joint mortgage, and like everyone I am seeking a better deal through my lender. They have given me a document in which renegotiates the interest rate down by nearly 3% and sent the document to the other sides lawyer, to which she has refused to sign on the basis it is her wish to sell the property. I do have the capacity to buy it out but clearly awaiting settlement for a figure in which we agree on. To me this is a heinous act in which only serves to push me out of the house, thoughts??